ixgbe: cleanup logic related to HW semaphores

This change cleans up much of the logic related to the hardware semaphores
on the adapters. There were a number of issues with timings that needed to
be addressed.

Signed-off-by: Emil Tantilov <emil.s.tantilov@intel.com>
Tested-by: Stephen Ko <stephen.s.ko@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>