netxen: fix corner cases of firmware recovery

Signed-off-by: Amit Kumar Salecha <amit.salecha@qlogic.com>

o DEV_NEED_RESET state was not handled during fw intialization phase.
o nx_decr_dev_ref_cnt() can return error, if fail to grab pcie seamphore.
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>