Manage BlockDriverState lifecycle with refcnt, so bdrv_delete() is no
longer public and should be called by bdrv_unref() if refcnt is
decreased to 0.

This is an identical change because effectively, there's no multiple
reference of BDS now: no caller of bdrv_ref() yet, only bdrv_new() sets
bs->refcnt to 1, so all bdrv_unref() now actually delete the BDS.

Signed-off-by: Fam Zheng <famz@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>