"Exclusive connections" are meant to be used for a single client call and
then scrapped.  The idea is to limit the use of the negotiated security
context.  The current code, however, isn't doing this: it is instead
restricting the socket to a single virtual connection and doing all the
calls over that.

This is changed such that the socket no longer maintains a special virtual
connection over which it will do all the calls, but rather gets a new one
each time a new exclusive call is made.

Further, using a socket option for this is a poor choice.  It should be
done on sendmsg with a control message marker instead so that calls can be
marked exclusive individually.  To that end, add RXRPC_EXCLUSIVE_CALL
which, if passed to sendmsg() as a control message element, will cause the
call to be done on an single-use connection.

The socket option (RXRPC_EXCLUSIVE_CONNECTION) still exists and, if set,
will override any lack of RXRPC_EXCLUSIVE_CALL being specified so that
programs using the setsockopt() will appear to work the same.

Signed-off-by: David Howells <dhowells@redhat.com>