Added UCMA and CMA support for multicast join flags. Flags are
passed using UCMA CM join command previously reserved fields.
Currently supporting two join flags indicating two different
multicast JoinStates:

1. Full Member:
   The initiator creates the Multicast group(MCG) if it wasn't
   previously created, can send Multicast messages to the group
   and receive messages from the MCG.

2. Send Only Full Member:
   The initiator creates the Multicast group(MCG) if it wasn't
   previously created, can send Multicast messages to the group
   but doesn't receive any messages from the MCG.

   IB: Send Only Full Member requires a query of ClassPortInfo
       to determine if SM/SA supports this option. If SM/SA
       doesn't support Send-Only there will be no join request
       sent and an error will be returned.

   ETH: When Send Only Full Member is requested no IGMP join
	will be sent.

Signed-off-by: Alex Vesker <valex@mellanox.com>
Reviewed by: Hal Rosenstock <hal@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>